“Deep and simple is far more essential
than shallow and complex.”
– Mister Rogers
“Mister Rogers & Me” premiered at The Nantucket Film Festival in 2010, and went on to screen at dozens of other festivals, including The Heartland Film Festival (where it won a “Crystal Heart Award”), The Flagstaff Film Festival (where it claimed “Best Documentary Feature”), and The Paley Center For Media’s DocFest.
The film was released on PBS DVD, Apple and iTunes in March, 2012, in celebration of Mister Rogers’ 84th birthday. A 58-minute broadcast version has aired on PBS affiliated across the United States hundreds of times often as a major fundraising lever. The award winning, 83-minute film has been streamed and downloaded tens of thousands of times.
All because of a deep and simple meeting …
Benjamin Wagner first met “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood” creator and star, Fred Rogers, at Rogers’ summer home on Nantucket, Massachusetts. His mother rented the cottage next door, so Mister Rogers really was his neighbor.
On the afternoon of their first meeting, “America’s Favorite Neighbor” asked the young journalist about his job as an MTV News producer. Wagner felt exposed and a tiny-bit embarrassed, a PBS mind in a jump-cut, sound-bit MTV world.
Mister Rogers said warmly, “I feel so strongly that deep and simple is far more essential than shallow and complex.”
Later, Rogers told Wagner, ‘Spread the message, Benjamin.”
After Rogers’ death in 2003, Wagner and his brother, Christofer, set out to meet some of Mister Rogers’ neighbors to find out more about the man himself, what he meant by “deep and simple,” and with whom in our junk food culture those values endure.
The brothers’ travels led them to Durham, North Carolina, where Mister Rog
and author of “Deep & Simple,” Bo Lozoff, shared three core tenets of a deeper life.
In Boston, Campaign For Commercial-Free Childhood founder – and one-time ‘Neighborhood’ puppeteer – Dr. Susan Linn detailed the dangers of media over-exposure.
In Virginia, the two met “The Simple Faith of Mister Rogers” author Amy Hollingsworth whose groundbreaking, faith-oriented interview with Rogers informed the origins of his on-camera ministry.
In Washington, DC, Meet The Press” host Tim Russert shared his tale of meeting Mister Rogers on Nantucket, and spoke to how deep and simple values hold up in the nation’s capital. Later, NPR’s Susan Stamberg – with whom Mister Rogers produced numerous television specials in the ‘80s – related her deeply moving experiences with the icon.
Back in New York, “Arthur” author Marc Brown explained how Rogers inspired his entrée into children’s programming. “Nick News” host, Linda Ellerbee, amplified the challenges facing the modern media programmer. And “I’m Proud of You” author Tim Madigan shared the lesson he learned from his relationship with Mister Rogers: friendship comes from the least expected sources.
On Nantucket, photographer Beverly Hall shared her memories of being Mister Rogers’ actual neighbor — surprise visits, tiny gestures, and quiet moments — and recalls the day ‘Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood’ visited hers.
And back in Rogers’ adoptive hometown of Pittsburgh, ‘This American Life’ contributor Davy Rothbart shares how his two encounters with Rogers continue to inspire an appreciation of reflective moments (even as they elude him).
In the end, the brothers come to know more than just the man and his luminous legacy. Their deeply-personal journey explores the roots of Mister Rogers’ values, unmasks the forces acting against depth and simplicity, and helps them to develop the means to lead deeper, simpler lives.
The Wagner Brothers revived their deep and simple conversation with their “Friends & Neighbors” Podcast in 2020, and are in post-production on a second documentary of the same name.
The Mister Rogers & Me Team
Writer, Producer & Director
Benjamin graduated from Syracuse University in 1993 with dual degrees in creative writing and journalism. Following a brief stint at an Upstate New York newspaper, he moved to New York City where he began writing for Rolling Stone. He started his MTV News career in 1996, interviewing acts like REM, U2, and Neil Young. He is currently Senior Vice President there. Benjamin is also performing singer/songwriter with twelve independent albums.
Director of Photography, Editor & Director
Christofer has worked in broadcast media since receiving a B.S. in Journalism/Political Science from Marietta College in 1990. His 20 years of media production range from the Emmy-winning news magazine, “Broadcast New York” to ABC’s “Monday Night Football” to MTV News’ award-winning “Unfiltered.” Christofer came to New York in 1995 with Broadcast News Networks, spent 11 years with Sony Music Studios and is currently Senior Editor at Creative Group.